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Decrease conflict & increase intimacy using Dr. Kristin Barnhart's Harmony Method through retreats, keynotes & interviews

Dr. Kristin Barnhart

Testimonial from Speaking

Pretty much every topic I had an a-ha moment

- Kaitlin

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Sample Speaking Topic:
Promote Curiosity by Listening Well

Step into the transformative realm of active listening within your relationship! Amidst the whirlwind of life, couples often encounter hurdles in truly connecting. Picture this: a shared desire for deeper understanding, a longing for smoother communication, and a need to navigate conflicts with grace. Dr. Barnhart will take you on a journey, unraveling the power of attentive listening as a catalyst for change. Explore the nuances of engaged listening designed for couples, uncovering the art of hearing and understanding each other authentically. From unlocking the secrets of communication to hands-on exercises, you'll walk away empowered to nurture curiosity with care. Imagine the ripple effect—enhanced trust, smoother conversations, and a deeper bond. Join this voyage toward enriched connection and meaningful relationships through the profound impact of listening well.

Sample Speaking Topic: Decrease Conflict through Apologies & Forgiveness

Let's journey together into the heart of sincere apologies and forgiveness within relationships. Picture this: a couple navigating a challenging disagreement, where an apology holds the power to heal wounds and forgiveness becomes the gateway to deeper understanding. Dr. Barnhart invites you to discover the essential elements of heartfelt apologies and the liberating potential of forgiveness. Explore these concepts not just as theories but as tools that mend relationships, fostering authenticity and grace in their connections. Through insightful discussions and practical exercises, discover how couples experience the transformative impact these principles can bring to your own relationship.

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romantic embrace

Sample Speaking Topic:
ncrease Intimacy through Creating a Safe Space for Being Vulnerable & Having Fun 

Dr. Barnhart warmly invites you to explore creating safe, intimate spaces within your relationship. Uncover elements that build trust and deepen connections, fostering a judgment-free zone where couples feel more comfortable being vulnerable with each other. Discover ten transformative shifts that elevate joy and fun in your relationship too! Embrace this journey towards deeper connection and meaningful bonds, where each shift nurtures warmth and positivity. You'll leave with tools you can use today and plans for a date on your calendar!


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I specialize in speaking engagements centered on my proprietary Harmony Method, a transformative framework meticulously crafted to empower couples to decrease conflict and increase intimacy while remaining curious about each other. From cultivating empathic communication to navigating conflicts with grace, each talk encapsulates actionable strategies tailored for meaningful relationship growth. As a licensed psychologist and relationship coach, I blend expertise and warmth to deliver sessions that provoke thought and inspire change. Let's collaborate to tailor these sessions to your organization's unique needs, ensuring an impactful and resonant experience for your audience.

Testimonial from Speaking

Kristin creates "a safe, judgment free space, and (she has) a very natural way to help you feel that you’re not alone and that this is very important and beneficial for relationships!

- Alyssa



I’m most looking forward to going on a date next week that we put on our calendar during the workshop!


I’m most looking forward to doing a better job of apologizing and actively listening to my wife.


Decreasing the time we spend on optional, stressful activities so that we can have time for the "increasing fun and intimacy" activities!

Upcoming Events

  • Calming Down Together
    Calming Down Together
    Sat, Apr 27
    Castle Church
    Apr 27, 2024, 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM EDT
    Castle Church, 4 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360, USA
    Apr 27, 2024, 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM EDT
    Castle Church, 4 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360, USA
    Tools and techniques needed to improve social & emotional regulation at home
  • Virtual Lunch & Learn: Communication Secrets for a Better Relationship
    Virtual Lunch & Learn: Communication Secrets for a Better Relationship
    Wed, Apr 17
    Communication Secrets
    Apr 17, 2024, 12:30 PM – 1:30 PM EDT
    Communication Secrets
    Apr 17, 2024, 12:30 PM – 1:30 PM EDT
    Communication Secrets
    Unravel the intricacies of non-verbal communication, active listening, and effective expression of thoughts and feelings.

For all speaking inquiries, podcast guesting and project collaborations, email or call Kristin

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